Early
this winter, Ms. Ayers [Upper School Director of Diversity] offered the members
of BSA [GA’s Black Student Alliance] an opportunity to attend the Mid-Atlantic Regional Diversity Conference. She said that the conference would be a great experience for
us to discuss topics concerning diversity with students from many schools. On Halloween,
Cobree H. ‘19, Tai H. ‘19, and I arrived at GA early in the morning. Ms. Ayers
provided transportation to the conference, which was held at Abington Friends
School. When
we arrived, we heard a keynote speech by Rodney Glasgow, a renowned public
speaker, who was dressed as Dorothy from “The Wizard of OZ”. This talk focused
on masks and the times in our lives when we decided to remove our masks and
embrace the strengths that we had.
Following
this talk, we were divided into home groups, where we would spend most of our
time throughout the day. A very cool thing about this conference was that it
was organized in large part by students and the home groups were facilitated by
students. The first activity we did in the home group dealt with identity and
how our true identity differs from what the rest of the world sees. We each
received a blank masquerade mask, and on its front, we wrote adjectives that
others would use to describe us at first glance. On the hidden side of the
mask, we wrote the things that someone would not be able to see just by looking
at us, and there were a wide array of responses that each person put wrote down.
After
that session, everyone piled into the school gym to take part in the silent
movement activity. In the gym, Mr. Glasgow went through a list of different
types of diversities that included race, gender, sexual orientation, religion,
socio-economic background, family life, and physical, mental, and emotional
health. In each of these categories, he would say a phrase like “I identify as
___” and each person that fit that category would walk to the middle of the gym.
They would then be asked to observe the people standing in the middle with
them, as well as those still standing by the walls. This activity showed the
extent of diversity that each person possessed and how someone could be so many
things all at once. When we returned to our home groups, we did another
movement activity. We stood in a circle and the student moderators went down a
list of diversity categories. Anybody in the group was allowed to step into the
middle and make a personal statement regarding the category. Anybody in the
room whom this statement resonated with would step into the middle in
solidarity. This activity had a similar effect as the previous one and everyone
felt very safe and willing to share personal experiences.
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Akosua and the GA cohort at Abington Friends School. |
During
lunchtime, we were able to choose a specialized workshop to attend. The GA
participants chose to attend the seminar on catcalling and the effect it has on
those receiving it. Overall, the conversation was light and entertaining and we
were able to hear points of view from both sides of the situation. Following
this, everyone broke up into their affinity groups, which were separated by race.
In my affinity group, we talked about racial stereotypes and the experiences
that people of different races deal with simply because of how they look. The
overall idea of that meeting dealt with “Don’t Box Me In”, a movement aimed at
breaking preconceived stereotypes. Each group of people was then tasked with creating
with a short rap that dealt with the idea of “Don’t Box Me In”. This was by far
the liveliest and part of the whole day and everyone really enjoyed themselves.
To conclude
the conference, we returned for our closing statements in the main auditorium.
This was the most emotional part of the conference. Students expressed the
gratitude they had for the conference and how it had helped them through very
tough situations that they’d experienced. Once again, there was the air of
candor and those who shared were unfiltered when they expressed their stories. We
closed off the day on a good note and left with a new sense of awareness about how
similar our experiences can be to those who seem to lead different lives.
~
Akosua A. ‘17